Top 7 First Date Ideas For Single Seniors

fThe “first date” is the stepping stone to every relationship. As couples, young and old, gear up for this day they earnestly wish not to mess up. Single seniors believe it is harder for them because age brings in multiple restrictions. They search for ideas that are fun and enjoyable yet age appropriate.

If you are a single senior with a first date scheduled in the coming week, remember age is merely a number. First date ideas for single seniors can be as exciting as picking up your girlfriend in your dad’s car, driving her to the movies and wrapping up the evening with a sumptuous meal. You can plan similar events; only tweak it to suit both your interests.

So, it’s time to be young again. Here are 7 ideas to enjoy your first date and wow your partner.

1. Dinner and movie:

This is a classic first date idea for seniors. Young couples too choose “dinner and movie” when they are unsure of what would be the best. The two of you can come to know each other better over a meal. If you want to

How Online Dating Can Help You Find Love Again

32For men and women over 50 who find themselves single, dating can be a little bit daunting to say the least. Some may have lost a partner or finished a long term relationship but feel the time is right to look for friendship and love again and maybe desire a longer term relationship should they find the right person.

Match made in heaven

Online dating is not a new phenomenon; in fact a growing number of older people are finding their partners this way. It is often seen as a practical option to meet that someone special as you’re able to match your interests.

Modern dating websites make it simple for mature singles to narrow down their searches by location, by interest, by education; there are numerous choices. They’re able to achieve all of this from the comfort of their own home, send emails and take their time to find the person that’s right for them – whether they’re looking for fun friendship or romance.

Making new friends

Online dating for the mature market is becoming increasingly popular because for some it can be more difficult to get out

Are Mature People Better at Online Dating

3gLast year, it was announced that online dating for mature people over 50 and above had risen an astonishing 40%. In fact, over 50’s dating is the fastest growing group of internet dating site users according to industry research.

This has resulted in an incredible rise in websites catering solely for the over 50 demographic offering their services to the mature dater. Sites vary from directly calling themselves ‘Over50 dating’ to a more refined and romantic ‘Find Love Again’ marketing approach. What is evident is the sheer volume of these sites for 50 plus people looking for a match made in heaven.

But why is 50+ dating so popular?

One reason is the increased number of internet users over fifty. ‘Silver surfers’ is the most common term to describe this group who have become more accustomed to the use of information technology. It has even been said that in some case they even spend more time on their computers than the 18-24 demographic. This growing trend has led to a higher use of websites for online shopping, internet banking and social networking – where people over

Dating Tips For Middle Aged People

dcIf you are recently divorced or widowed, and are an aging boomer who hasn’t dated in years; if you can barely remember what dating was like except a fuzzy memory of being young, happy and free, then you may be wondering how dating at middle age is different. This article talks a little about dating for middle aged people.

I am almost 50 and was recently thrown back into the middle aged dating pool when my husband came out of the closet. While I was married I often missed dating since marriage usually seemed so predictable and boring. The idea of being chased by a new man and discovering everything about him seemed so much more exciting then yet another date night where my husband and I ran out of things to talk about since we had heard every story we ever had after 20 years.

I was unpleasantly surprised to find that there were a lot of bad things about dating that I had forgotten about when I started dating again:

1. Being judged on your looks
I was used to being judged at the store

How To Help Mom Or Dad Start Dating Again

kmAs a child, it is often difficult to get over the loss of a parent or accept separation caused by divorce. You are emotionally charged; there are feelings of sorrow mingled with guilt. And, during this time, when you see your dad dressing up for a date or your mom chatting up with a male colleague, you feel disgusted. There is only one question in your mind – How can he/she do this?

Your feelings and questions are completely justified. However, if you think logically, if you look at it from their perspective, there isn’t anything wrong in your parent seeking companionship again. It is likely that he or she feels lonely. A person who has lived his or her life alone is not disturbed by solitude, but one who has known companionship finds it hard to imagine life without a friend or spouse. Ask yourself would you like to spend the rest of your life alone?

Instead of critiquing their decision, you, as a daughter or son – their own and who understands them best – should support and help them get back into the

Setting Dating Goals

fWe all have set New Year’s resolutions – weight loss, save money, be organized – but do you set relationship resolutions?

Think about it, have you been dating the same type of personality over and over with the same outcome? You end up alone. Maybe it’s time to reflect on what type of person you should be dating. You could start with a pros and cons list. What attributes or personality traits are non-negotiable? Humor, sarcasm, easy-going, spontaneous, energetic… Which traits are you thinking you should stay away from? Needy, vanity, a spender, a drinker…

Okay, once you have your list, it’s time to reflect, really make sure you’ve been honest with yourself. Don’t beat yourself up, it may take a few tries to get your list realistic. Remember, you’re finally being honest with yourself.

I know, the bad boy is exciting – dangerous, unpredictable, exciting – but he also cheats and treats you like crap. I know, I know, the good guy is dull, predicable, and routine. There is a happy medium, you just have to look.

If you’re straying away from your usual type to find

You Need To Know What You Want First

dsWhen it comes to online dating, you must first ask yourself what you are looking for. Are you looking for someone to be your friend in hopes that something more develops. Are you into just a hook-up? Are you looking for your soul mate but realize that you’ll have to go through a number of people to find that match?

Some folks are shallow minded, they want someone with certain looks, height, physical attributes, and hair and eye color, someone nice to look at. Okay, but those are not what make a soul mate, you’ll need more than that. I was considering this issue as I over head a conversation where one gal was talking about her height with her taller friend, they both didn’t want a man shorter than them, because that might not look right. I was thinking that I am 5’10” so about 6-foot with my New Balance sneakers on. I can remember I used to like petite Blonde’s as a younger man, but in listening to their conversation, I thought to myself; I always wondered if shorter women were upset looking

How To Find A Partner After The Age Of 50

meWhen you first started out, you did not expect to see yourself on the dating scene at the age of 50. However, life can be trying at times. Death and divorce put a sudden end to relationships you believed would last for life. A few of you might have also stayed away from getting romantically involved during your younger days for personal reasons. However now, as old age creeps, there is a strong urge inside to search for a new long-term relationship; to look for a friend or companion you can share your joys with and lean on for support in times of trouble.

Dating again after the age of 50 is intimidating, but not as complicated as it sounds. Whatever your goal of finding a partner, with a little effort you make this dream come true.

Coping with Family Reaction

Family reaction is an important dating concern for seniors. It makes many go back and forth on their decision. Although children are immersed in their own lives, the thought of a parent seeking companionship again might affect them; a few accept it openly. Irrespective of the

How To Make A Man Fall In Love Even With Age Differences

3tIf you ever meet a man and spent a lot of time writing flirty, humorous and lighthearted text messages or emails back and forth, you need to read this to see if he’s truly interested in you or just playing with your heart.

You can have the most amazing conversations and get along extremely well, but if your man isn’t truly in to you, he will leave you hanging.

A lot of women make the mistake of thinking about him too much and what a great catch he is. But do you also find yourself wondering how he really feels about you?

A few weeks or months can go by and he could be hinting at something more if you’re paying attention. Sometimes a man can suddenly be silent and cold. He could stop asking you out on dates, he could stop calling you to confess any secrets, he talks about other women around you, and you’re none the wiser about his feelings. You might start to wonder if you’ve been conveniently slotted into the friend zone.

At this point, you need to do something really fast. Most

Older Women Dating Younger Men – “The Cougar Kind of Dating”

34It’s the dream of every man at some point in their lives to take up the challenge of dating someone much older than them. There’s that uncontrollable urge to try it out regardless, of whether it works out well or not. And this cannot be rated as abnormal especially if one feels up to it and loves the person despite the age gap between them. We most often see older women dating younger men as an act that society frowns upon and to a large extent refer to these older women as ‘COUGARS’,which denotes older women laying in wait to prey on much younger men. But with the recent upsurge of globalization, this act has as a matter of fact, received an appreciable level of tolerance.

Dating older women can come along with its added pros and cons, which can make the relationship work out just fine or end eventually. The reasons for dating older women may vary from one guy to the next; but in all this, the success of this relationship may be dependent on what one really wants. For instance, one may

After 40 Singles Coaching Ladies, Learn How to Talk to Men in Forties and Fifties at a Coffee Shop

deMost single women over 40 years old find it challenging to meet quality men in their forties and fifties. Midlife women are so busy with their own careers and kids that it can feel daunting to try to meet eligible bachelors their own age.

One of the best ways to get back into dating at any age is to practice breaking the ice and talking with people wherever you go during your day and while running your errands.

It can feel nerve-racking to try to have a conversation with a complete stranger. But don’t you find yourself standing next to strangers at the coffee bar asking them to pass you a coffee stirring device? That is an ice breaker! When you head out to start your work day or your weekend, go visit your favorite coffee shop. While you are in line either waiting to place your order or to receive your beverage, just calmly ask the other people milling about a question or two. “Have you ever tried their cappuccino? I keep meaning to do so.” “What is your favorite pastry? They all look so

What Men Think About Relationships and Aging Women

loThe truth is, this is a complete matter of personal preference between two people. And no body really has the right to tell you that it is right or wrong. What can they do about true love? In today’s world there are many reasons that people choose to seek an older or younger partner for their relationships depending on preference.

These people are sometimes the happiest and in some cases have the best relationships. This is due to the fact that they are not superficial and all concerned about good looks, or age.

But there are some people who are concerned about something else.

Some people are concerned with more material concerns like whether the older person has a lot of money that they can give away. Have you heard about the story of ‘gold digger’ women marrying a dying rich men for his money. Or how about the stories about women hiring a killer to murder her husband for the insurance money? All of this is not for love at all. It’s for money. And it really is a trivial thing. There are so many opportunities

Scared What You See Looking in the Mirror? Looking at Your Inner Self Might Help Your Relationships

3rAs you get older (year by year, if not quicker), looking at yourself in the mirror, does your face match the picture you have of yourself in your mind’s eye?

Many don’t like looking at themselves in the mirror as they get older (40, 50, 60… ). They would have preferred to stay young for ever.

But even if your face is changing, it might well be that you yourself are not: you keep “doing” life and relationships the way you used to until now; you are motivated by the same fears and needs which have driven you until now; you apply the same self-sabotaging behaviors in your dating and relationships, same ones which have caused you to fail so many relationships.

So why do you continue with the same old patterns of behavior? Why don’t you change while your face – and probably your body – change?

The reason is simple: apparently you don’t have too much control over your face and body. They progress through the regular path of nature, of maturity, which makes them change (often to your dislike). But your emotions and behaviors could

Ready for a Long Life, Having Years to Have a Partner and Build a Successful Intimate Relationship?

2dResearchers tell us that one’s happiness depends on having a partner. If this is true, than in these days, when life expectancy becomes longer and longer, it becomes even more crucial that you find a partner with whom to develop a successful intimacy.

But can you do that? Do you know how to go about building a successful intimacy? What kind of experiences have you had by now? How many of them were a successful story and in how many have you failed?

Not losing hope about having a successful intimacy is great. And in order to achieve you goal you might keep engaging with dating sites, meeting others and trying to develop relationships.

But if you don’t succeed, for one reason or another, you might develop anxiety, thinking to yourself: “I still have years to live, and does it mean I will stay alone from now on?”

If an intimate relationship is of uttermost importance to you it is not only because of who you are, because of your need and wish to have a partner, but also because, in all likelihood, you have already retired, or

Seniors Dating Online – Do You Feel Lucky?

2fKaren was a seventy-year-old whose husband had passed away the previous year. She was lonely and lived in a tiny rural community, where the assortment of single older men was exceptionally limited. She decided to try out Internet dating. She read the tips that were given online for how to write a successful personal profile. All she got in response were replies from men she could tell were scammers and gamers.

Finally, she got mad. Nothing was paying off. She sat down and wrote from her heart, with the genuine passion and anger she felt. “I’m not here to be anyone’s servant. If you want a woman to pick up your socks, go look for somebody else.”

The very day after she posted the new profile, a man named Dennis found her on the dating site. He read her fiery essay, chuckling the whole time. “This is one old gal I’ve simply got to meet,” he said to himself. It was love at first sight. Karen and Dennis have now been together for thirteen years of marriage, and still are going strong. They are a true,

Dating Too Long With No Success? Stop Dating and Take the Time to Understand What Makes You Fail

3eIf you date too long and see no success, what does it mean? Well, there could be many possibilities: that you haven’t yet found your “soul-mate”; that you haven’t yet recovered from past-relationship; that you are afraid to start again, and so on and so forth.

But if might also be that you have dated too much and feel exhausted from endless trials, disappointments. That you are disillusioned; that you are unsure whether to keep on dating or not.

When this is what you feel, keeping dating might be counterproductive; it might take you no where. The reason being, that you don’t project happiness to your date, but fatigue; not empowerment, but desperation; not patience, but impatience; not self-respect, but neediness.

The problem is, that at your age you might feel that “time is short”. That if you won’t go on yet another date you might miss someone special. That reading a book or go to a movie while still not having a partner is a waste of time.

But then, if you haven’t succeeded until now, do you have any guarantees – except hope – that “next

3 Great Tips You Should Consider

4It can be scary to get back into the dating world after a long time. One of the major things that many senior citizens don’t know is how to approach dating. To help you out, here are tips that you should consider:

Involve your children

By now you most likely have adult children that are very protective. To avoid misunderstandings in the future you should let them know of your decision to start dating again. If you have met an interesting person you should introduce him/her to your children.

When introducing your partner you should remember that the decision to date depends on you not your children. While the children will give you their opinions on your partner, they shouldn’t sway your decision. Remember that it’s your happiness that you are after-you aren’t after their approval.

Be clear of your expectations

When you meet a great partner you should be clear of what you are expecting from the relationship. Studies have shown that most seniors aren’t interested in remarrying-most of them are after company.

While this is the case, there are others that may be after marriage. To avoid wasting

Cougar Dating Back To Basics

bvAre you looking for some great ways of hooking up with a hot cougar? There is no doubt that it might sound a bit too difficult in the start. You might think where you should be going to locate these hot cougars to go out with and just how you can go about re-connecting with them. Don’t worry at all, as we are here to give you some tips that will help you get started.

Take It Easy

First of all, you shouldn’t worry as it’s easier than you think. All you need is a small amount of time and a good deal of determination and you will be good.

Cougar Dating Sites

You may sign up on a dating web site for free, do some research to see if it’s for you and then set up your user profile, with a hope that hot cougars can just track you down.

Nightclubs And Bars

If you are more of a confident and sociable person, you may wish to take a look at some specific pubs, or clubs. Cougars have a tendency to be really confident as far as flirting and

5 Common Senior Dating Mistakes And How To Avoid Them

44As a senior citizen, you most likely have been out of the dating scene for a long time. To be successful in dating you need to avoid making these mistakes:

Sounding desperate

If your partner left you, you might be desperate for love, but you shouldn’t let other people know about it.

One of the things that you should never do is say that you are in love with a person that you just met.

It’s common to be excited of a new person in your life.

You can mention that the person is interesting to you, but you should never say that you love him/her.

Using the wrong dating site

Technology has made it possible to find love at the comfort of your couch.

While there are many dating sites, not all are right for you. Even if you are able to sign up to a dating site, it’s hard to find a partner as most of these sites are full of people looking for younger partners.

To increase your chances of finding the right person for you, you should research and find reputable dating sites for seniors. You should create an

No Need to Be Lonely at Sixty

3As we live healthier, longer lives we are faced with issues that did not trouble our parents’ generation so much. Nowadays it is common for people to have gone through divorce or bereavement, and we don’t always have the cosy extended family around to fill the gap. Old age often can sometimes be seen as a time of loneliness: friends die off, family are no more and children move away. All that remains is an empty, meaningless life in front of a dying fireside – right?

Wrong! Like the rest of life, age is what you make it, and there are no rules that say that being over sixty means being any more lonely or unfulfilled than at any age – in fact it’s quite the opposite!

Over-sixty is an unparalleled opportunity to get to know more people and do more things than we ever thought possible. We can sit at home and have access to the whole world. The home computer has more power than the Soviet Union did at the height of the Cold War. The TV does things that we never even knew