The truth is, this is a complete matter of personal preference between two people. And no body really has the right to tell you that it is right or wrong. What can they do about true love? In today’s world there are many reasons that people choose to seek an older or younger partner for their relationships depending on preference.
These people are sometimes the happiest and in some cases have the best relationships. This is due to the fact that they are not superficial and all concerned about good looks, or age.
But there are some people who are concerned about something else.
Some people are concerned with more material concerns like whether the older person has a lot of money that they can give away. Have you heard about the story of ‘gold digger’ women marrying a dying rich men for his money. Or how about the stories about women hiring a killer to murder her husband for the insurance money? All of this is not for love at all. It’s for money. And it really is a trivial thing. There are so many opportunities for us to make money in the world and they can’t see it. Worst of all they will never find love, or personal compatibility or good character traits in other people. They are not worried because they don’t care. Some just want the money. What can I say? It is dependent on the individual person and their life.
Every person is different. It’s a good idea to date people of different ages before you judge others and to determine what is best for you. There are just so many opportunities out there, and so many men and women looking for their match, if you are new to the dating scene, it is especially important to determine what works well for you. Your love is at stake here and it is important to determine before you try to get involved in a serious relationship. It is the first step in setting up yourself for success and getting a date and it could possibility be the beginning of something more. If you don’t do any of this, you are setting yourself up for failure and misery.
When you do decide what is right for you, before you are about to go on your first date, you should check whether your partner is into you for the right reasons. Age difference in a relationship means other differences too. There are factors like maturity level, personality, past history, and work experience that you need to know because they will impact the overall health of the potential relationship. What if he’s a creep? What if he’s been divorced seventeen times? These are issues you need to know to protect yourself from any potential dangers that could arise.
If you and your guy are compatible on the more basic levels and you know it is safe, then you can choose to spend more time getting to know one another. The date has a good chance of going well. On the other hand, if you pick a dangerous felon that’s about to commit another crime, you better scream out loud, and head for the hills. Being with a creep is always something that you will simply never enjoy. Doing your home work on a guy helps your chances of success and diminishes any probability you fall victim. You owe it to yourself to give yourself best shot for love and happiness.